Sr. Advisor, 99, at tea room
Advice and Ideas about Life and Aging:
9 Original Sayings
Original sayings must be in Sr. Advisor R’s DNA. One of her mother’s sayings, “Do the best you can, angels can do no more,” has appeared in previous posts. Wisdom…based on many year’s of living. R’s mother died in her early 90’s. R will be 100 in September. (Sr. Advisor R tab above has more information.)
Yesterday she invited 3 women for lunch and tea (including myself) at the Rose Tea Room. She was driven over by the other two guests–both much younger. She had made all the arrangements for the luncheon. Our conversation was stimulating and included lots of laughs.
This wrapping paper’s design is something to laugh about
When the conversations are long enough, we’re treated to some of R’s sayings. Wisdom–from one who has lived a long life and paid attention.
1. In today’s world there are three things you can count on: flowers, music, and animals (to bring joy).
2. Life is good; it’s the people who mess it up.
3. As we live our lives, we write our own history.
4. Don’t abuse yourself. You get enough from the outside.
5. Know when to say “no.”
6. As you age it is helpful to simplify your life.
7. Don’t expect anything and you won’t be disappointed.
8. Don’t assume.
9. Take care of yourself or you won’t be able to take care of anything else.
Because R values independence to such a high degree, “take care of yourself” has been a major motivator in her old age. We have also heard and read from many sources how important this is for family caregivers. When we hear “take care of yourself…” from someone who has navigated life for 99 years most successfully by anyone’s standards, do we take heed? These words are clearly meant for us as well.
Related: 2014 research: Wisdom’s Importance in Successful Aging