HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY
What is it that’s so endearing about seeing an old couple holding hands, walking arm in arm, smiling at each other in that certain way?
Is it what each one of us hopes for when we hit the old age mark?
I remember my birthday party some years ago. It was a small dinner party with close family and friends–a mix of ages from my infant niece to three elders–late 80’s-mid-90’s.
We sat around a large table in a hotel’s small private dining room. When the meal was winding down, I asked a question of the older guests. It was something like: “What would you tell us younger people that we should know, but might not be aware of?”
The oldest guest, my friend’s mother in her 90’s (the lady I took to lunch at a bar for her 100th birthday) shared: “I may be old, but Inside I feel like I did when I was an 18-year-old (pause) with all the same desires too.”
It’s so easy to forget that inside an old body can be a young-feeling heart.
With wishes that we can help aging parents and the elders we care about
find that young spot in their hearts this Valentine’s Day.
From Help! Aging Parents